The article evaluates various Discord alternatives for online community management, emphasizing the need for an exit strategy from freemium services. The author reviews several platforms including Signal, Matrix, Rocket.Chat, Zulip, Mattermost, and Discourse based on five key criteria: Functionality, Openness, Security, Safety, and Decentralization. Discord itself serves as a baseline, noted for high functionality but poor openness and decentralization. Signal is praised for privacy but lacks community tools, while Matrix offers federation at the cost of administrative complexity. Rocket.Chat and Discourse emerge as top-ranked contenders, with the former providing a smooth Slack-like experience and the latter excelling in long-term asynchronous organization and safety. Ultimately, the author stresses that while the choice of tool is critical for longevity, the community culture is primarily shaped by its people.